![]() ![]() So unless The girl is new to Tinder or you’ve created a new original name pun (which she’s probably already seen) you shouldn’t go with this route. It’s like saying hey or hi at this point in time. Most guys just go online and steal a generic name pun and send it to the girl expecting a response. The name puns get a ton of upvotes, but for every successful post, there are thousands of posts that go unnoticed. Sure you might get some karma points, but besides that nothing will happen.ĭon’t look at the illusion of what’s posted there. Look don’t get me wrong it’s fun to send a pun and get a witty response from a girl, but at this point it’s overdone. While the tinder reddit (/r/tinder) might go crazy over name puns they honestly aren’t the best way to open up a conversation. I’m going to go over a few in order from my least to favorite. There’s so many different ways to start a conversation on Tinder whether you want to use an icebreaker, a name pun, a pick-up line, or a custom message there are really an unlimited amount of ways to start talking to her. Don’t fret if you aren’t funny, because I’m not. I can’t recall ever laughing at an opener. If you’ve used bumble, have you ever gotten a clever or funny opener? I’ve had hundreds of matches and messages sent. There is a stigma that you need to be funny to get results in online dating. Don’t try so hard to get laid, it’s obvious. It’s sometimes easy to forget, but remember you need to have fun. There are so many girls on Tinder, don’t give up if you fail in the beginning. If it doesn’t change it up and try again. If something works, great, keep using it. Try them out and see what works best for you.įind your strength and use it to your advantage. Whether you are charming, clever, or funny. And they can’t possibly respond to every message you get.įind your style. Your friends or pickup coach aren’t going to be there on the date with you. Instead of writing my own statements and getting a feel of my messaging style, I HEAVILY relied on stealing lines or begging friends for help. This was honestly one of my biggest challenges when I first started messaging on Tinder. Most apps just have different user interfaces and girls that use them for different purposes Just Be Yourself The fundamentals of messaging are the same across different apps. So whether you are using Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, or any other popular dating app, you can use all these techniques to start getting messages from girls. No this works out pretty well for most dating apps. These all make a terrible first impression” These messaging techniques work for more than just Tinder Our negative correlation list is a fool’s lexicon: ur, u, wat, wont, and so on. “Netspeak, bad grammar, and bad spelling are huge turn-offs. You can see from this OkCupid case study that being illiterate is a huge turnoff. You already matched with her, spend a few more seconds making sure everything is correct. You need to make sure your messages make sense. Whether it’s extremely boring messages, not knowing when to grab a number, or acting femimine. Luckily for you, most guys are awful at messaging. The first step is to start that conversation & the ball is in your court to initiate. The best ways to do this is to either have an amazing profile optimized for matches (link to a post) (Girls will open you if done correctly) & or be great with messaging. Unless you are supermodel quality, your message needs to grab her attention. So with all of this in mind, you really need to stand out among all of her matches. One red flag or negative implication in a photo or bio can cause her to swipe left. With that being said, she can be picky with who she swipes right on. Try and get as many matches as possible and only message attractive girls. She’s going to automatically assume also that you are using tinder as a numbers game. In fact she knows that most guys are going to swipe right on her if she’s attractive. Since there is such an uneven balance, girls don’t have to worry about getting matches. According to statista, 78% of Tinder Users are guys. You have to remember that there are many more guys on Tinder than girls. What you should know before sending a messageīefore I go over sending the initial message, here are some basic things you need to know. ![]()
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